Wednesday, May 27, 2009

OKC, The Lost Boys, Kenya Calling.....

On my way to Oklahoma City for the wedding of my colleagues daughter...I realized how happy I was to have my "traveling shoes" back on again. I really had only been in one place for 4 days, but nonetheless I was ready to hit the road and fill my senses with new people, places, experiences and things.

I always seem to meet interesting people when I am on the road. Perhaps it is because I am more open and not in an everyday situation. I love to watch people. I am not really a "talker" but if the right person walks into my sphere I engage because I know it is right. I love to hear their stories, life experiences, perceptions of similar situations.

On my flight today I was sitting in the airport watching and working on my computer sharing an outlet (which always seems to happen these days)and the man commented about my laptop which is dual English and Arabic keyboard. We started talking, conversations intertwining, synergistic. I noticed the the people who were sitting across from us.

I then recollected a story of being in Washington D.C. with my 1 1/2 yr old twins and Sabrina traveling to KY for my nephew S's graduation. On the way we were stuck at DCA for quite sometime due to the usual onslaught of June thunderstorm season rolling through D.C. Eight hours in the airport with a set of twins provides for loads of interaction with people and interesting observations and conversations.

As we wonder around the airport trying to induce sleep by letting the twins walk off all their energy (I know now, it has the exact opposite effect at that age. They become physically exhausted however mentally they are completely afraid if they close their eyes they might miss something new and spectacular. Thus it creates stumbling exhausted children) we move closer to our gate hoping that perhaps we might get them to lay down on a blanket or in their stroller and take a brief nap. I notice a group of various age young boys and men, all with white packets in their hands. They wore various t-shirts with designs on them but what caught my attention was they way were walking or sitting and staring at their feet. I mentioned to Sabrina that these boys and men had obviously never worn shoes before, and looked as if this was one of the first flights that they had taken....They were obviously a long way from home.

In the tired state of mind my son walked up to a young man around 12-13 yrs of age and grabbed a hold of his leg and hugged it. I thought the boy was going to jump out of his skin, but he looked down at my son with the kindest eyes... as I walked up to him and smiled and apologized. Of course he understood nothing that I was saying but the smile and the eyes spoke a thousand words, that were understood by all of us.

He picked up my son in his arms away from his leg, my son looked at him in the eyes and smiled and proceeded to put his arms around this young mans neck and his head upon his shoulder, closed his eyes and fell directly asleep. I put my hand on the boys shoulder motioning if I should relieve him of his un obligated duty. He smiled and sat down with my son and held him until the plane started to board. I wish I had a camera for that moment.

My daughter of course continued to romp around drunk tired.

As the plane began to board, I could sense the anxiety and fear that had risen in the air...all of the boys and men looking at their tickets pointing... I then knew they didn't understand where, when or what seat they were supposed to be boarding too. Sabrina and I pre boarded with the kids onto the plane, my daughter fell asleep immediately. I walked back out the door and went to the boy who had held my son, I grabbed his hand and pointed to his ticket. I walked each one of them to their seats on that plane. A sigh of relief washed over all.

I was very happy to arrive in KY everyone safe and sound. I was even happier to see as I deboarded the plane with all my "ducklings"safely following closely behind. There was entire crowd of people with "Welcome to America" signs waiting for my ducklings :-) I smiled and hugged the boy and looked him in the eyes and said "Welcome to America" he smiled back with a tear in his eye and said "thank you".

My sister in law met us at the airport as always ready to give the twins huge hugs and love. I explained to her about the hug and the boys. She explained to me that their is a huge population of immigrants that are sponsored by local charities to bring them to KY....who would have ever thought. This is where they go after arrival:



http://www.lostboysfilm.com/learn.html

Popping back into the current days travel and story:

The man smiled. He explained that he was an ER doctor from Nairobi, Kenya and he was here to ensure one of the boys made it to San Antonio. He would return to Kenya the following day... What a wonderful man he is.... Now I have a new pen pal. We exchanged email addresses. I hope to be fortunate enough to return to Kenya someday. Perhaps, I can convince a few of my MD and Dentist friends to come along and help plow the way to peace together.

All from a random meeting at an airport....

Quote of the Day

"Can you imagine what I would do if I could do all I can?" ~Sun Tzu

Saturday, May 23, 2009

I'd forgotten how wonderful and amazing the fire flies look floating and flickering out in the open fields. So brilliant and delightful to watch! So simple, yet so complex.... Ah just to sit and think of all the permutations and combinations that act and react to allow the earth and universe to continue to exist. Perhaps, we as humans need to take a step back, breathe and learn how to coexist before we cease to exist. The simplest solutions seem the most difficult for people to grasp.

Good night, muffins, moon, stars, fire flies, people and universe. I look forward to greeting you again if I am lucky enough to wake and drink you in again tomorrow.

Saturday, May 16, 2009

The Whirlwind U.S. Tour

Well I dont know quite how to start this other than describing these last 4 weeks as amazing. Dropped into NYC, LAX, LAS,LAX hit the red eye back to NYC, went and changed the clothes out of my suitcase, got in the car and was dropped off at 1500 in time for the CIO Forum cruise on the Norweigen Dawn for 4 Days... Back on the ground for 2 days, D.C. for a week, home for Mother's Day, back to D.C. Now I am back in CT for 4 days then off to OKC for 4 days.....

Stay Tuned.... More tomorrow after a bit of sleep and snuggle time with my darling little girl...

Friday, April 17, 2009

Fun Vampires

Col. Mustard had a great way of describing somthing I have felt today. Fun Vampires! I love it! They are the people that when they walk into the room all the life is sucked right out of it (or so they try). We are working on anti-fun sucking garlic serum for these people. I am not quite sure what “fun vampires” get out of the action other than....trying their best to make certain that everyone is as miserable as they are....Doesnt work on me most times and definately not as long as sunshine, kids and animals are involved.

Addendum: I have been in entire towns where everyone is a FUN VAMPIRE....completely trying to suck the life out of you. I may have to start a fun vampire map so that my friends can avoid these areas that I encounter during my travels!

Happy Friday!

S

Thursday, April 16, 2009

~Home- Simple Minds

God gave me travelling shoes, God gave me the wanderer’s eye,
God gave me a few gold coins to help me to the other side.
Looked around and said: be careful how small things grow,
God gave me travelling shoes and I knew that it was time to go.

Sent in the ship at night to take me to the hidden port.
Found me the key at last to open up the prison door.
Brought down the blackbird's wings, gifted me with beggar's eyes.
Sent in the jackals to tell me I should say bye, bye, bye.

I'm home, home,
Home, home, home
And I'm home, home,
home, home, home
But I'm miles and miles and miles and miles and miles away
Where can I hide?

God gave me one last chance, gave me one last reprieve.
Jah gave me hunger, gave me the air to breathe.
Gave me one suitcase, gave me one last goodbye
Gave me travelling shoes, without them I would surely die, die, die

Home, home
Home, home, home (2x)

Thanks Ferry :-)

Saturday, April 4, 2009

Random Ruminations on my flight to JFK

If I had seven days and I and I knew it...what would I do...what would I change....what would I do to help others...who would I talk to...what would I say? Why would I say it...

It is the eyes of the children that keep me alive...

I will like you because you are a good person...You are good and kind even when people are not watching you....

The vibrations of the sound of life, smells and music resonate thoughout my life.....

When I surrounded by the less fortunate it reminds me of my of how fortunate I am....would you tell me your story?

I have a thyroid contdition....not cancer...not fatal...not congenital heart disease.....I am so fortunate...

I have lived the lives of many...I have been farther and saw more of life than 99% of the individuals on this planet we call earth.....If I can just give a smile to give life and hope to others it will all be good...I am so fortunate.

There are so many things that I want to do....I just want the time to do everything that excites me..... I am so afraid of time running out....

I miss my kids... . I miss my dog...I miss everything related to family... but yet I am still here kicking away....trying to make a difference...

Freedom is my life and you know how I feel.... the hum of life it is what keeps me going.... to watch and to feel is all I know....I am a simpelton and a hermit...but loving every moment I have to view it all is a wonderful thing....

Hugs from the sky...

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Susan has now not only survived a tornado, sandstorm, torrential downpour with thunder and lighting but a nice little sting from a scorpion

I have survived a lot in my life, I am a warrior and my family and friends know it...

Highlights: Tornado's while growing up, Massive earthquakes in CA, the military stuff, the Berkeley Hills fire, Berkeley in general, turf wars of gangs in Oakland which is kind of like being taken out by the Masai, 9-11, tropical depressions on a faraway island, almost being bought as the 26th wife by a Masai tribesman in Africa, Malaria from India....you know the usual girl from Indiana stuff.

The funny thing about it is that as much as life throws at me, I take a deep breath and am happy to be alive, hopefully a little wiser in the process learning from my mistakes and adventures but none the less happy to be six ft above ground everyday when I open my eyes. I have all my fingers and toes, two healthy children, a roof over my head, food in my kids mouths, a wonderful inner circle and no one is shooting at me (currently, hopefully not anytime soon either). It is all just a journey and I am sucking it all in! So the thoughts for this week (as I am returning to NYC for approx a month for surgery)is the following:

I never knew that the UAE and Oman had tornado's, lightening like I have never seen and thunder that is like a nuke going off in your bedroom, torrential downpours that flood the highways, Sandstorms (I knew about these) However my newest surprise decided that the weather outside was to dangerous and wet for his or her liking and decided to come into my car (through a vent perhaps, who knows) and as I finished dinner at the Intercontinental with my favorite Canadians I went into my car and sat down and got a huge sharp sting in my lower back! Ouch! I put my hand back there to see if I could find what stung me but no luck. I could feel the pain radiating out and feeling kind of funny. I called Dr. Bill on my way back to the camp and told him what had happened. I was only 5 minutes from home. So I got there he gave me massive dose of antihistimines, a glass of white wine and then cleaned the area and looked for a stinger of some sort. No stinger... He suspected a scorpion. No biggie he didn't hit me by my heart! So I fell asleep with ice on my back, and the Dr. Watching over me as I slept on the couch. No anaphylectic shock today.

So when I returned to the car the next day my friend R~ made me check my car before getting in...and sure enough there was a dead scorpion on the floor mat of my car....Oh well at least I now have immunities to one of the 27 or so species that exist in the desert! 26 to go....eh it wasn't that bad....I am still 6ft above ground, however will be a bit more careful when climbing into ground related structures...

Much love to all, your crazy geek in the desert,

Susan

Saturday, March 28, 2009

Coffee by Jahnjeer


One of my favorite parts of my day is when Jahnjeer brings me coffee and water in the morning.

Jahnjeer is from Bangladesh, he speaks four languages (including english), is smart as a whip and is such a wonderful human being with a kind heart. When he brings my coffee into my office in the morning, he teaches me something new every day. A greeting or word of the day a custom I don't quite grasp, really helpful.

As the day continues on he knows exactly when my coffee cup is empty and that I have two cups (I prefer Turkish but nescafe does quite nicely) I drink 4-6 cans of Canadian club soda, I love pumpkin seeds and pistachios and a wonderful cup of herbal tea in the afternoon around 1430.

He takes care of me...he reminds me when it is closing time (as the absent minded geek I am I always lose track of time and would most likely forget that the world exists outside of my office). He used to wait until I left for the day, however, he figured out that I really had no sense of time or when the work day was over when I kept going until 2000hrs.

He then realized that I was a "geek" and had absolutely no sense of time and he began to make a habit of coming in to remind me that the work day was over, I should go out and get a bit of sun and run my errands so that I could start the day fresh again tomorrow.

This man who is the "office boy" is a talented, multilingual, genuine gem who upon my arrival back from NYC along with the other special people in my world, will get a present of hugs and possibly other things from the opposite side of the globe...

From Dubai with love to all,

Susan

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

In my passport case....

In my passport case is the following:

My Passport (obviously)

International Drivers Liscence

Pictures of my family

Various denominations of money (including a 500,000 dollar bill from Zimbabwe given to me from a friend for the kids)

and the most important through all of the moves:

Four cards given to me by my favorite sister in law (hidden in various places in my Chicago Apt at the time so that I would turn a corner or open a drawer and smile). Whenever I doubt myself I pull them out and look at them.

1. Dare to be remarkable

2. Never, never, never ever give up.

3. Yesterday is history tomorrow is a mystery TODAY is a gift.

and 4: Live with intention. walk to the edge. listen hard. play with abandon. laugh. choose with no regret. continue to learn. appreciate your friends. do what you love. live as if this is all there is....~Mary anne radmacher.

Thank you Darlene for the constant reminder that I am here for today...and I will live for it...

Much love,

Susan

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

The Model UN: The UAE



Living in the UAE is absolutely fascinating. Especially from a cultural perspective.

My office for instance: We have representations from all around the world: Syria, UAE, Egyptian, USA, Pakistan, Bangledesh, India, Oman, Sudan, etc.... We all work side by side.

It reminds me of NYC in a way.

I have had no problems with anyone since my arrival. I have been in the middle of the desert, the middle of industrial areas, work camps, regions, and I have always felt warmly welcomed even as the only blonde female (or just female for that matter) for a couple of km.

I think the most fun that I have had was on the Prophet Mohammeds birthday. I saw a group of workers (all different nationalities) playing soccer in the dust (by where the camels live). I stopped got out of my car and in my broken, Arabic, Hindi and Urdu mix asked if I could play with them. Although I wasnt able to "high five" any of them because they were all men, I had a blast, laughed, smiled and got dusty with all of them.

The other fun place I have gone is the Intercontinental in Al Ain. There is always a traditional wedding festivity, a bunch of expats and a broad mix of locals. I go to the horse and jockey (british pub) and sit out on the veranda and get on the internet and watch people. The crowd is fabulous. I quickly made friends with the team from Canada who are there for the next month and have developed quite a fondness of my colorful neighbors to the north! Whenever I am there now, there is always someone who comes to my table...Austrian, Canadian, German etc.

Last night was Bingo night at the H&J as everyone calls it... What a blast! You could win a steak dinner at the hotel for a full card or a drink for a line :-) One of my favorite Canadians "George" is now the "caller" and he is great.

Lots of fun as always, I am still alive and breathing.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

IDC ME- Burj Al Arab

Burj Al Arab

The pretty sail boat shaped building in the photos from 360 last time.

I was invited to my first Middle East forum, sponsored by IDC and McAfee Security.

The Burj is absolutely amazing. It was on the 27th floor (the top of the sail, and in the rotunda...) Quite the first conference.

Out of 100 or so CIO/ senior IT attendees there were 5 females and I was positioned in the 3rd row next to 2 of them in full abaya. Kind of like salt and pepper :-)

So I was the the "curiosity" of all. LOL....

During the coffee/breakfast break, I just stood to the side alone and watched in total immersion soaking it all in and quite happy to listen and watch.

Of course I had to raise my hand and ask the question to the panel:

"Everyone talks about cloud computing, what happens when there is no cloud"?

Point and case: In the MENA at the end of December all four undersea cables (which are the internet back bone)and the entire region had no internet access. I have encountered this once before and it took down my entire system, the symantec antivirus is cloud based and could not update and shut my OS completely down. I actually had to go in and boot through DOS and remove symantec from my boot file. Then I was able to boot into windows. I wanted to make sure that they understood the constraints of working in a country without enormous bandwidth. I think my point was well received. This is not America or Europe.

It has been a busy few weeks. A good busy. I am back in Al Ain and going to go for a massage tonight, to work out all the mach momentum brainstorming I have been doing in the last 30 days.

I can and do perform as a "social" person when at the circus (I.E. IDC conferences such as the one yesterday held at the top of the Burj Al Arab or 3 black tie dinners in a week) But 2 days of performing at the circus is socially exhausting for me. It drains my social bank. At that point all I want is to not talk out loud and listen....Does that make sense or am I just a crazy woman in the desert?

Whatever it is, I am happily winding my way through another adventure.But it is all just a journey and a wonderful one at that...I am happy I am alive and breathing another day to experience it all.